Treatment for Drug Addiction

Having a drug addict in the family is one of the worst feeling there is. I should know, I had one. For years, my brother Jeff has been suffering from obsessive drug addiction. His life has been ruined because of it. He lost his job, his family and his future. I can't recall one single moment we bonded as a brother and a sister. He never reached out to me. Maybe because he is already hooked into drug addiction even at a young age. My parents have been seeking for ways for a very long time now to convince him to change his life for the better but to no avail. We as a family already tried doing almost everything just to persuade him to have him treated in a Drug Rehab Center but he never listens. I even told him that I will be the one to pay for his treatment and that he should not worry about anything. All he just needs to do is undergo some Drug Rehab Program. I believe that only Drug Rehabilitation will cure his drug dependency as those institution really knows what makes a drug addict and knows various ways on how to make sure a patient won’t go back on his old ways. I’ve searched the net and have found a number of institutions that helps drug addict to slowly take out the toxins and their body and help them cope up with the withdrawal syndrome from drug use. I know that will power alone, especially if you’ve been an addict almost half of your life, will not help a patient get rid of those toxins in his body. As for me, I will never get tired of asking him to give up his vices and follow the right path. I hope one of these days my brother would be able to realize that we love him so much, that is why we want him to have a better life.

Intervention

Just last month, we had our cable installed so we can watch programs even at night. Since then, I never fail to watch Bio's Intervention. It's is a reality show that tackles issues regarding families. I never fail to be amazed on how those group of doctors and psychologists were able to handle domestic issues that easily. One of the episode I've seen was when a friend asked for the help of the group so they could treat her friend for obesity. It was really heart breaking. The guy was so fat he could not even fit into his car anymore and his friend is so worried that he'll gonna die soon because of his weight. Another episode that really touched my heart was when a wife asked for the doctors help to convince her husband to get treated for drug addiction.

The group really had a hard time convincing the husband to undergo Effective Drug Rehab Programs to cure his addiction. The husband even threaten to harm the group if they wont stop bugging him. Thanks to the understanding, perseverance and patience of the group, they were able to persuade the guy to get himself into Effective Drug Rehab. The group monitored the success of the patient and because of a very ,Effective Addiction Treatment the husband was able to get rid of the toxins and promised to never again get himself into drug addiction. Oh, I love reality shows!

Simple Pleasures

Hello everyone! How's your weekend? I applied for a leave today because I want to destress myself. It has been a crazy week for me and I want to get one extra day off so I can do the things I want to do like blogging and beading. I want to take time to rearrange my goals and to have a definite plan for the future. As you all know, ,I am still on the process of planning my life. I still doesn't have a solid plan for what I need to do with my life though I am already 30 years old. So sad huh. Well, I can't blame anyone for this. Maybe I was not vigilant enough to pursue my original goal that is why I am left with no option but to go back to square one. Anyway, enough of those rants. what's important is that I am willing to go back to the right track.

From now on, I would start doing what I love the most...blogging. I've been busy with some unimportant things that I failed to blog as much as I want to. Also, I wasn't able to earn as much as I used to and I want to get it back. Right now, I am blogging while watching our favorite noontime show. My hubby is busy cooking our lunch.

During my rest days, me and my hubby normally plays live dealer casinos. It’s our favorite past time. Playing freeslots and flash casinos makes us feel as if we are in Las Vegas playing in a world class casino house. Time flies when we play online. These simple pleasures are what makes my life happy. I just hope our lives would just be as simple as this.

Cute Baby Shamira

My friend PJ just had a niece last month. She was named Shamira, a cute baby from his sister Lendy. I could tell she is PJ's niece because they are look alike. Their nose and their ice are the same. His sister must have been so proud of her baby. Though she doesnt have a husband, his brother PJ promised her that he would take care of her and her baby.

Melai and I wanted to pay a visit to finally see the baby in flesh. I've only seen her from the facebook pictures PJ is posting in his account. I would like to give this baby something special so I checked the net for any cute baby stuff and found this cute preschool mat from posylane. I want to buy her that cute ladybug nap mat. So colorful and handy. I told Melai about the site and she would like to order that litle stephen joseph backpacks quilted backpack so Shamira's mom can put in her stuff all in one cute bag. I was overwhelmed by that huge collection of baby stuff and have found a cute lunch totes that I would like to buy as a gift for my nephew on his 4th birthday. Empoy would start his schooling this school year and this little cute mint lunch box would look good on him. I was planning to visit him next week for his birthday. I wasn’t able to see him for almost 4 months now, the last time I’ve seen him was last Christmas. I hope he likes my lunch box gift for him. I’m happy I was able to stumble upon Posylane, a great site especially for those who doesn't have any idea on what to give to toddlers. I would place an order for those two products later.

Waiting...

I don't know but lately I've been feeling so down lately. Since our Operations Manager started barging our calls for the last three days,. They said it's a random audit but four of my teammates already has been barged at and she started only in our team. I hate that feeling. A feeling that anytime, you can be kicked out of your job. Hayz I guess I feel that I am not ready to lose this job yet. I don't have any savings right now. Imagine, ten years of working and no savings yet! I admit, my current salary is more than P25,000 and my sister is the one paying for the house...my only responsibility is our food, our utilities, our transportation and my parent's allowance which if added all in all...would only amount to around P15,000. I could save around P10,000 monthly and yet saving P3,000 is such a painful task for me to do. Maybe because I am the only one working for me and my hubby. I can't blame him. At those times when he does have a job, I always ask him to stay with me and be absent especially when it's my rest day. He's been without job for three years now and I guess our situation would be different if were both working. I just hope that he could get a permanent job soon so I my plan of resigning next year and  be a full time blogger would come to reality.Lately, I have been irritated with my hubby, maybe because I can't see a drive in him to uplift our standard of living. He always say he would find a job but he really didn't do anything...he is just waiting for my instruction. He should be the one leading the way, directing the way we should live. He should be the one to do the planning and yet he is waiting for my instructions all the time. I hope he could find a way to make our lives easier...

Change In Attitude

Well' I'm back again on this blog. I'm ashamed of not being able to stick to my plans...I can't take the fact that am already 31 years old but I only have P3,000 on my bank account. I am already earning around P30,000 monthly and yet, I wasn't able to save. I've been working for almost ten years now and yet, I still feel I'm still starting in my career. Yes, I am afraid. Afraid to lose, afraid to be laughed at, afraid to be alone. I don't want to take risks and thinks negatively in every application. I definitely hate myself. I don't want to live like this anymore but I don't know how to start. I know I have the capacity to be rich but I don't have the proper discipline to reach that goal. Lord, help me to change my attitude. I don't want to be a happy go lucky girl anymore, I want results. I want good results. I hope the next time I vent out my feelings as honestly as this one...I already have good news. For now, wish me luck.

My Dream House

I've been wanting to get a house of my own for the last five years now but haven't decided yet on where I want to have it built. Will it be near where my current office is located or should it be near to where my mom is currently residing in Montalban. I need to make sure that the village where we'll build our dream house would be a safe and a peaceful environment. I've been sketching some drafts of my dream house and one of which does have an attic. It also does have an outdoor lighting and a swimming pool in the garden which I will also decorate with outdoor ceiling lighting. I bet it would be the highlight of the house. The garden would also have those pretty landscape lighting where I would entertain my guests on maybe some dinner parties. I am really excited to have this plan materialize and hopefully I could be able to get my dream house next year after my retirement. I plan to resign late this year and the retirement fund I'll gonna receive from our company would be used to build the house. I hope God would bless this plan of mine and hopefully all my dreams including this one would come true. Wish me luck.